The Terrible Two's

So...Charlie will be three in April. I italicized it because I honestly can't believe it. I remember being pregnant with her...having her...being with her when she was tiny like it was yesterday! There are two sides to it though, I just told my mom the othere day "I don't know what I did before I had her." It's so true. She adds so much to my life. She's hilarious and original and, boy, she is a TALKER. The other night we were in bed and trying to go to sleep (yes she was in my bed, yes I know that's not good) and she's like, "You're my sexy mommy." I almost died from laughing (so of course she said it like six more times). I was like, where did you hear that?! (No, Will doesn't say things like that, if he did I wouldn't wonder where she heard it:)) Anyway, this is not the point.
The point.
She is two. And she obviously doesn't have a full grasp on how to control emotions/etc. So she's been throwing fits lately. And honestly I'm at my wits end as to what to do. She just loses it completely...and usually over nothing at all.
So I told her this week we are staying home all week to work on this. I'm tired of being in the Target parking lot and wrestling my (large) two-year-old in her carseat. I said we're staying home: you're sleeping in your own bed, you're getting up at a decent time, you're taking regular naps at a good time, and you're goine to bed on time. I said we're not arguing anymore, if I say something and you don't like it -- to your room you go.
Today (obviously) is the first day of this. It's not going well. :)
Checklist:

• stay home (check)
• sleep in own bed (not even close...on the floor in our room for most of the night, our bed for the rest)
• get up on time (check)
• nap @ good time (it was okay...half-check)
• bed on time (not even close again...actually fell asleep on the couch and is still there...)
• arguing (I don't know?)

She did throw one fit (went to her room) and argue some. I think she was kind of bored. We're still staying home but I'm going to try to do more with her tomorrow. Well Ben woke up so I'm typing one-handed. I'll let you know how it goes...please feel free to give advice.